We only have freedom to choose when we are not in danger

When we speak from a position of strength, we forget that not everyone has the same privilege. Without a calm place to stand, without stability, there is no safe place to strike out from. It is the most fundamental human need.

Safety and security is more than a good neighborhood or a job. It is the sure thought that tomorrow and for the foreseeable future, there will be enough to eat, there will be a home that does not itself contain dangers, and despite what problems may be thrown at us, we will have a support system of people and seeable graspable opportunities which insure our continued lives and futures.

Most of us don’t have that. At best we have 2 of the 3 and hope that in some far off unknowable future we will be able to start planning for more than today. Most of us won’t make it to that future.

We are stuck on a ferris wheel which we stepped onto, all naive and full of dreams, hoping and thinking that tomorrow will be better. And that’s the best case, many were forced into darker alleys and worse choices by main circumstances.

How do we make it out? As a people, as humanity, how do we stop breaking the hearts and minds of our people just to perpetuate systems which promote the continuous devolution to barbarism.

I don’t know. And it’s hard to think of how to do so. I’m not safe. And it’s only because my broken heart and mind won’t allow me to sleep, that I’m able to get out even these words. All the while, wracked by doubt and worry and fear, thinking about the morning. When it all starts up again.

7 thoughts on “We only have freedom to choose when we are not in danger

    • Pelgris February 18, 2019 / 10:17 am

      Realization hit me like a freight train a week or so ago. It’s taken me this long to formulate a coherent thought.

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      • S.S. February 18, 2019 / 10:56 am

        Completely been my week too

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        • Pelgris February 18, 2019 / 11:03 am

          😢, well I hope things get better.

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            • Pelgris February 18, 2019 / 11:09 am

              It’s not looking like it. The rabbit hole just keeps getting deeper. But I’m trying

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