Too tentative

I’ve been told that I’m squishy. Or too nice. That I was too sappy or too romantic.
It’s true and not true.
Tell me what you need and give consent and the Claws can come out to play. My limits are few but I need consent to be given. Otherwise, I’m just a man who will help and emotionally support you, like a good Sir but never crossing the line.
Not because I don’t know how or don’t want to cross it, but because I do.

Consent, ongoing and enthusiastic, should never be seen as a bad thing. There are those who would say that I should just take when it seems like consent is given. I can’t. I won’t. Informed, enthusiastic, ongoing. It’s the only way to fly or float as the case may be.

6 thoughts on “Too tentative

  1. Scarlet A. Rhiannon June 20, 2018 / 2:37 pm

    I love and respect that about you earnestly

    Liked by 1 person

  2. TheFeatheredSleep June 20, 2018 / 3:02 pm

    Oh I do hope you are romantic and too romantic because good grief this world needs people who CARE !

    Liked by 2 people

    • Pelgris June 20, 2018 / 3:05 pm

      I think people would say that I am a romantic and that I am romantic, but I’ll leave others to make that appellation. I will say that I’m just me. Beyond that, let me be judged by my words and deeds.


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