I dislike the rule when dating to not talk about sexual stuff. Why not cut out my tongue too? That rule precludes me from talking about half of what I write and wipes away my two longest relationships which started and were bound up in sex. I can’t talk about BDSM. For obvious reasons. I know there is a world of other things but sex is my touchstone. Talking about it makes me comfortable. Weird right? I guess we could talk about books? Or music, though not (redacted). Those are things and I can talk about them. It’s just not natural for me to. I know it is strange that the guy who is bored with casual sex wants to talk about sex, but not really. I mean how do you think I became bored with it? I don’t know. Maybe I’m just bad at small talk. Talk serious with me.