I talk about love arguably more than I talk about sex.  I suppose it’s because when I’m in love and I’m in the relationship, there will be sex.  The sex will be good, will be interesting.  I take it as a given.  I will do my best to make it so and I have the skills to make it so.  And I’m always learning more about everything, including sex.  Anatomy, what works, what doesn’t.  I guess I just assume, and the more I read and listen I learn that is not most people’s experience.  At least, even if I am not in a relationship, I know that my lovers had a good time during sex.