Pelgris

Online dating feels cold to me.  I get that it is often a game.  the end goal being to meet someone you connect with.  But the people I really connect with?  They are often not the people I would intellectually choose. And that is what online dating feels like to me.  An intellectual game,  But while I am intelligent and while it is a game I can play, it feels false.  But on the other hand, I don’t do well in the bar scene, and I don’t form instant connections. Even the person I am interested in now, I didn’t see her, really see her until 3 weeks had past.