It is strange when sex and pain are the center of a relationship. Maybe especially so when it starts that way. And especially so when you are the outsider in an open marriage. I’ve met her husband and he’s cool with it. And my Intuition isn’t throwing any red flags. I think as long as it stays a top/bottom relationship he’ll be fine but I want more than that. So I thought I’d share this out with a bunch of strangers to see if it helps me work through it. I think I’ll ask them out on a date and see where it goes. If it goes.