The most powerful lies are the ones we tell ourselves. The ones that shield us. That say we are unique, so unique that others must comply to our standards. Must accept our choices instead of compromise and consensus.
These lies are seducers, they whisper to us through our flaws, our vulnerabilities. Who doesn’t want to be desired for their uniqueness? But this is false, the moment we allow our Ego to speak as if it were truth we are lost.
If you perceive a flaw or issue in your personality, then you are beholden to exam it. To soften it’s edges and if you find that it impacts your emotional well being, then you must work on it. If you feel you can’t or feel you’re fine then see a therapist, tell them everything. See if where you are is acceptable to you.
It’s a hard thing to know yourself. Harder still to keep reexamining when you perceive yourself to be OK.
Pelgris 