Top 3 things I will fuck up in a relationship

1. I’ll call it a relationship way before anyone considers it to be a relationship.
Then I’ll have to explain that I see all social interactions that are ongoing as relationships and then I’ll seem like a overthinking weirdo.

2. I will fall in love fairly quickly. And people will say that you barely know me, and I’ll say that’s true but I trust my Intuition and it says that there is something here. Love expands to fill the available space. It is not a finite thing to me. I’m not saying one true love or perfection or anything. I’m saying that I like, respect, enjoy your thoughts and mind and I feel something in you that calls to me. Again, weirdo.

3. I will fail to initiate physical intimacy, including as little as kissing until you are thinking Finally. Because I will not act without consent and I am steadfast in my rules(which I suppose is number 4). I don’t do the when the moment is right. I depend on my partner/date to tell me, Yes Now. Of course, I’m a passionate man so that may later seem to be a mistake. As in, I’ll want to kiss and touch and hold and hug all of the time, plus more intimate things as we progress. And believe me, I have no regard for public space. So PDA is very much on the market.

There are a bunch more but those are the ones that span across my experience.

8 thoughts on “Top 3 things I will fuck up in a relationship

    • 1 is when it comes up. 2 definitely is, but how else am I to define it? I’m not in like or lust. Perhaps we need better words. What’s a word for attracted to, respectful of, fascinated by, and caring of, if not love?

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    • I’ve had complaints. Or people who I really liked who shy away because of them. Maybe fuck up is just how I term it because I wanted it to work. But yeah, mostly it’s just how I think. And I can tamp it down but really it’s almost a lie to my way of thinking to not be honest about where my heads at.

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